25 Random Things About Mee: A Birthday Post

I’ve clocked a quarter century!!! You can’t talk to me anyhow anymore oh. Now on my grown woman shii.

Leading up to my 25th birthday, I was not as excited as I usually am about birthdays in general. It was not a sober feeling, just more gratitude than anything else. I aged a lot on the inside right before my 24th birthday and so my 24th year was spent doing a lot of adjusting to this person I had been forced to grow into and reconciling that with who I desire to be. Womanhood is such a gift and if I was not certain before, I know now that if I had to choose, I will always choose to be a woman in this skin. I love it. Like I told AB, it finally feels like I have attained a strong and stable foundation after 25 years and so now, I’m ready to build higher and higher and higher knowing that what I have at the base can take it all.

I was lucky to spend my birthday weekend in New Orleans with my roommate. NOLA has quickly become my favorite place and so now, I would like to make it there at least once a year, since I have been once every year in the last 3 years. I saw that Klassy Kinks did an instagram post with 26 things about her right before her 27th birthday. I thought that was a fun and light post. So here are 25 random things about me:Read More

Pursuit of Perfection

Happy Tuesday, guys!

How is the going going? What have you and your hair been up to? 🙂

I’m still wearing this kinky straight wig. Some people really think it’s my hair lol. At the bank yesterday, someone tapped me and when I turned around, she was like “oh, thank goodness! I thought it was all yours!”

LOL okay lady. What if it was?? What would you have done? 😛

Just kidding. Let’s go off on a bit of a tangent today. Let’s talk about perfection.Read More

The Big 2-5!

25th Birthday Photoshoot- The Kink and I

About 3 weeks ago, I turned 25. The big 2-5! If you hear one particular person tell it, you would think I didn’t let anybody hear word about my birthday lol but that is SO not true!

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ÂżDonde Son?: My Trip to Colombia

Colombia is one of those places with a somewhat negative public perception. You all saw Narcos, innit (I’m yet to get on that). In the months leading up to my trip, there nearly wasn’t a raised eyebrow each time I mentioned that I was headed to Escobar’s Colombia. Some thought it was a joke. But I really was headed that way and I really did go and guess what, I really did have an amazing time. One of those trips that will be listed next to ‘Unforgettable’ in my dictionary.Read More